Wednesday, April 21, 2010

have you know character our child?

All children are born with their own uniqueness. Nobody in this world who have the character or nature of the exact same. For that to know the character of rearing children is very important, because by knowing the character of the child, parents have an understanding of the advantages and limitations of the child, who certainly will affect the treatment to the child's parents. Is that character? Character is who we are, the basis of personality and character of a person. This affects how people view the world, what he believes and believes and how he feels, thinks and acts. These characters are inborn and therefore can be seen since childhood, although there may be an adult pergeresan behavior based on the learning process. For example Si B looks quiet because he is an introvert person who closed and less interested in social relationships with others. While Si A look friendly and jovial as he is an extrovert person who is open and has a high social interest. What good is knowing the character of the child? So that we do not force yourself to shape the character of the child as we think or want. Would not we familiar with the phrase: "why do you want to play outside ga? See the sun shining brightly and your friends are playing a bicycle. " Though the child is an introvert (but has not been able to explore his own feelings) feel more comfortable playing at home. But parents who are extroverts difficult to understand why the day was bright and lively child prefer to play at home. How do we understand the character of the child? Surely we must understand some of the characters beforehand. There are several theories about the character or temperament. But most often we with introverts and extroverts probably is. People seemed quiet and introverted tend to pull away from the environment. He did need more time for themselves and usually a lot of thinking before acting. Too much interaction with the outside world will suck energy, and to restore the energy they need time to themselves. Children who usually looks quiet introverted and less interested in having social interaction with other children, preferring solitary activities than rollicking. Having a few friends and less interested in increasing the number of friends unless forced. Usually they will look cool, do not care and like to play alone. People who extrovert looks open, enthusiastic and passionate in the face of almost every thing and really enjoy the interaction with others. They are usually verbally active, easy to start a conversation with others. Their energy will be exhausted if they are too long alone, and to restore their need to interact and do activities with the crowd. Children who will look vibrant extrovert, always cheerful and talked much about their activities (sometimes in detail!). They always want to leave the house to play with his friends and look confused when too long in silence at home. His friends are many and growing every day. Apart from the two characters in the unisex 4 sudh well-known temper. Namely sanguinis, Choleric, melancholic and plegmatis (Personality Plus, Florence Littauer, 1996). Sanguinis: Extroverts - talk - optimistic Choleric: Extroverts - do - optimistic Melancholy: Introvert - think - pessimistic Plegmatis: Introvert - observers - Children sanguinis pessimist will look playful, reassuring, pleasant and enthusiastic but could not look less serious and focus. Choleric child will look serious, purposeful, consistent and focused with what he wants, but rather regulate, bossy and will not budge. Melancholy child will look serious, diligent, good to all regularly scheduled or something, but sensitive, often moody, sometimes seen struggling with his own thoughts and do not like change. Plegmatis child will look calm, easy to make fun, easy to make friends but tend to be passive and can be seen as less and less eager to have the will

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